What Do You Really Want?

What do you really want for your life?

What do you really want your job to feel like?

What do you really want your relationship to be like on the daily?

What do you really want your physical body + mind to feel like?

What do you really want to create in this world?

Where do you really want to travel to?

What kinds of experiences do you really want to have?

What kinds of people do you really want to spend time with?

All great questions that might not have glaringly obvious answers at this point in your life. You might also already have an incline of what the answers are. The best part about these questions is that it brings to attention aspects of your life that you might not have thought about in a while or ever.

What better time than NOW?! As humans, we are conditioned to live for never-never-land where some time in the future will be better than the present moment we have in front of us. There is actually no better time than now to look. The past isn’t real and the future isn’t certain - all you have is the right now.

The even better part? You have decisions. You have choice! You’re in the driver seat of your big life-bus.

“Ok, but roz, how do I get clear about what I really want?” That’s a great question that I don’t have the answer for.

All I have are my own answers, and guess what? I want you to want to find out what you want (That’s a lot of wants haha).

Nobody has your answers. You get to discover and create them for yourself!

Here’s a few points though; Start small. Open the door a crack and look in. Starting somewhere is better than not starting. Become a really good self-question-asker. Ask yourself what you want regularly + with a lot of love. This takes practice.

Reflect often. Look in the mirror about how life is really going. Wonder about the things you know nothing about. This creates new learning. Be open to hear other people’s perspective. This gives you another view to collect.

Get curious about something, anything. Curiosity leads to connection. Let the sparks of what you have yet to experience allow your path to stay lit. This keeps you open to what’s in store.

Inquire about the dark corners of your life that you’ve ignored. There is always something there to resolve. There has to be a sense of willingness to look at the gaps in your life to see what you can create to fulfill what you really want. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.

I could give you the classic “you only have one life, do it right” feel but there’s a finite feel to that. There is a gloomy cloud of “if you don’t do it right then you fail at life.” Let these questions empower you to actively choose what you really want.

Let the answers give you space to let go of what’s not meant for you. And whatever you do, keep practicing being unstoppable at going after what you really want! Hint: that means you have to keep getting back up. I promise it’s worth it!

xx

Roz